My girlfriend never wants to kiss or cuddle and always turns me down for sex

DEAR DEIDRE:  MY girlfriend used to be very loving but now she’s the complete opposite.

She never wants to kiss or cuddle and turns me down for sex.

She blames it on the kids being around – ours are six and four – but if they are out she still finds an excuse.

I am 29 and she is 27.

Everything changed when a new guy started at the supermarket where she works.

He gives her lifts to and from work, even drove her to hospital when her mum was taken poorly, and pays for a taxi for her if he can’t give her a lift.

She says they are just good friends and she doesn’t like him “like that”.

I want to trust her but something is telling me I shouldn’t.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Playing detective solves nothing, whatever may or may not be happening between your girlfriend and this guy.

Tell her your relationship is running into the ground and you both need to put in fresh energy.

When the children are in bed of an evening, focus on one another – relaxing together, talking, sharing a sensuous massage.

If she refuses to try, it’s fair to ask for an explanation.

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